Expectations

We usually keep expectation from everything. Knowingly or unknowingly. In fact usually we decide our actions and reactions depending on what we want and what we expect.

Let’s think in this way – we expect and let others expect from us. Once we let others expect from us we try to act the way they want us to and so we try to please them. We allow them to do so.. It’s simple give and take relation you expect they will also expect from you. We usually behave like this because we think of next person and don’t want to hurt them. This is one of the reasons we forget “what we actually are,what we want and what our natural reactions are“.

This also makes you and other person weak. As we stop others too from thinking wide.We actually don't let others know what ACTUAL we are. We curb ourselves from expressing your own self. Which is why they think and assume how we gonna react. And if we fail to react the way they have been seeing us and ultimately the way they want us to then we are termed as “Changed”.

As expectations increases person tend to inclined for quantitative output rather than qualities. This is also a reason of loosing focus from your work. It’s a vicious circle.

If not from others we start expecting from ourselves. Expecting from self is good if we really working towards it.

This can either increase your productivity or

We need to live simply without expectations and without judging. It’s us who choose to expect and let others expect from us. Let’s change this notion of expectations from ourselves and then see life will be much simpler and easy. Let’s not expect anything from others. Starting from your loved ones..

Things when we get without expectations will bring real happiness in our life, which will be everlasting.Lets increase our horizon and let others too. Its a free life where nothing is for free...