“John be responsible, now you are on your own, we won’t be there to support you every time” every mom say this to his son. We hear this everyday from some or the other person. It’s not new. Most of us love their parents. According to me there are two types of people around us. One who thinks that parents are our responsibility and second who thinks it’s their duty towards us. But no one has ever thought about duty of a child towards their parents. I don’t think so it will ever happen.
When we were kids we were not that good to take any decision. It was only our parents who used to guide us so that we learn to take our own decision because they care for us. Now questions arise about care. What is care all about? Care is a support. It is a pain killer when we are tired of our life and think we are good for nothing. It is our parents who support us at that time. Sometimes they ask too many questions like “Why are you so late today?” but now a days we call it as restrictions and we use to say they are not giving us space. If vice a versa happens we say careless parents. When they care for us we call it restrictions.
So only the parents are responsible to us there is no our responsibility to make them happy. Think about this every question will be answered.
i knw my responsibility do u knw urs???????
ReplyDeletei love my parents a lot n i am definitely gonna take care of them..wat abt u dear? u dint mention wat u think abt ur parents?
ReplyDeleteAs children we should never forget the responsibility towards our parents.
ReplyDeletei think at this point of time it is our resposiblity to take care of our parents....
ReplyDeleteI have one simple question to ask, when parents do something for their children (give them support, love, care, education, etc), do they expect something in return? If yes, then that is not unconditional and there is a price attached to it. And if there is any kind of associated price, then that is called as trading or business. In business, you promise to give something only if you have it.
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dear sanjeev........
ReplyDeletewhatever our parents do that is their duty of course.....they didnt ask us any returns where as i think......its our obligation to our parents that we show some respect and love to them.........
i respect your thought and agree to u that there is nothing unconditional....everything has its price tag.....
its not give and take its only a bond of love....
i think this is the bigger lesson of everybody's life... those who ve understand it can won anything in their life....
ReplyDeleteYes every person fulfills his responsibility towards parent. It’s true
ReplyDeleteIts not about responsibility or duty...its about love towards our parents.
ReplyDeleteI agree to what Anonymous said.Y to mix up responsibility and duty with love..It should always come with Love.Things done with love and real care(Not forced)shows real results.And if really love someone be it ur parents or anyone it will never be as your "Responsibility".And our parents did all those things cos they love us not cos it was a responsibility..
ReplyDeleteit happens most of the time we compare love with duty and responsibility........
ReplyDeleteresponsibility comes through care n affection towards ur parents..........
i love my parents too much...........
ReplyDeletelove is the silent language of care.......if u care for some one means u r responsible.........
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