“John be responsible, now you are on your own, we won’t be there to support you every time” every mom say this to his son. We hear this everyday from some or the other person. It’s not new. Most of us love their parents. According to me there are two types of people around us. One who thinks that parents are our responsibility and second who thinks it’s their duty towards us. But no one has ever thought about duty of a child towards their parents. I don’t think so it will ever happen.
When we were kids we were not that good to take any decision. It was only our parents who used to guide us so that we learn to take our own decision because they care for us. Now questions arise about care. What is care all about? Care is a support. It is a pain killer when we are tired of our life and think we are good for nothing. It is our parents who support us at that time. Sometimes they ask too many questions like “Why are you so late today?” but now a days we call it as restrictions and we use to say they are not giving us space. If vice a versa happens we say careless parents. When they care for us we call it restrictions.
So only the parents are responsible to us there is no our responsibility to make them happy. Think about this every question will be answered.