I am party animal.I don’t need any reason to go for party. Every weekend I go for party and prefer to go to new places rather going to same place each every time. A good place for me is where I can get good food, drink, nice music and a dance floor as I love to dance.
You see things; and you say, 'Why?' But I dream things that never were; and I say, 'Why not? This is what exactly prompted me to get on to this blog .. I thought why don't all those people write too .. who feel they can not or do not have the flair for writing .. coz they are scared to do so .. coz they would mess up with the language !! I say why not .. This is for all those people who thought ' I CAN NOT WRITE " I welcome each of you on this journey ....Lets Walk ..
Thursday, December 30, 2010
New year plans!!!!
I am party animal.I don’t need any reason to go for party. Every weekend I go for party and prefer to go to new places rather going to same place each every time. A good place for me is where I can get good food, drink, nice music and a dance floor as I love to dance.
Thursday, December 23, 2010
The fundamental choice- "To Think or not to Think?"
Upon returning home at the end of a work day, I sit alone and think about the day, what I have learned, how productive I have been and all that has been drilled into my head time and again about living. Be successful and make a fortune! While the fact remains that we don’t have a clue as to how to do it…
Whenever we look at an unusual and attractive construction, we see that the building is very pleasing to look at, we neglect thinking about or praising the strong foundations that hold the structure up. It is the same when we think about other people, we look at how charming and wealthy they are or how sculpted their bodies look, we do not think about how much work went into acquiring wealth or how many hours were put in at the gym to get that sculpted physique. Our thoughts are basically shallow while it is in our thoughts that the basic fundamentals of life should come in. When I talk about my life; it means that I am completely responsible for it. Either I make it or i break it.
What is essential to be a winner? What is he supposed to do? He must decide whether he wants to win in the race or just be a participating athlete. In this case it is all about primary choice.
The idea is that there are many different paths from one point to another, but there is only one path that leads you to your goal.
What is our fundamental choice?
In my opinion, our fundamental choice would be our commitment to our self; it’s all about being true to what is most important to us. All things begin with a choice. We become what we choose. So why don’t we choose to think about ourselves; there are only two options available in each and every situation arising before us… “Take it or leave it”.
In this case we have two fundamental choices “to think or not to think”.
If we consider about making a choice we have to think about primary choice that is called “Focus on Self”. Primary choice is that on which we make major decisions, creations and results. In short primary choice is all about what we wish to be. For this we have to think; it will not come all of sudden.
After primary choice we have another choice; how to go about it. Secondary choices are steps we take towards achieving those results. If we will think in a proper way only then can we take the decision.
That’s why our first thought process itself start from thinking, when we chose to think about our primary choice only then we will think further about our action plan to full fill it.
It is said “What I think is who I am”.
So the first step for any decision is to think, yet we don’t. Why are we not thinking! The reason behind it is we don’t choose to think, we have lots of excuses for it.
Most people stop when they fail in their first time decision. Rest stop after they have failed tenth time.
We forget that great people never stop until they find a way. There is always a way and you can find it if you are willing to change your approach.
On the other hand, if you are evaluating a choice where the important characteristics may be hidden, then making a fast judgment is not such a good idea. This is only possible with your fundamental choice of thinking.
Isn’t that a powerful thought? I never thought about that before I realized power of thinking.
We will get high on life! This choice of thinking creates an empowering feeling in you because you are taking control of your own life. That is not bad to start with. Try it for yourself you will end up with a loads of wonders in your life.
Friday, November 26, 2010
Parallel thinking
Best friend...
Thursday, November 25, 2010
If you are not criticized, you may not be doing much.
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
To Chase? Or To Run?
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
I am just an expression
I am just an expression..
I can’t speak..
I can’t express what I feel..
Why I am mum that I don’t know..
No words can express me..
Hope you know who I AM…
Its Me Again...
Scars have the power to remind you that the past is REAL..!
Poker
Monday, November 22, 2010
I hate myself
Experiment with Lies III
I took so long
Cicatrization
Friday, November 19, 2010
The Card Deck - a look at history
He is there..
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
How I started writing
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Arguments out of a pretty mouth are unanswerable!!!
Because I love you………..
Rock n Roll - Part 3
Monday, November 15, 2010
Change
How to listen
Is online gaming and share market are same
I have been tracking share market from last one and half years and I started to play poker in last six months. One day questions comes in my mind whether these two fields are completely different or they are the same and once I started to figure out the difference between these two fields I came across that the in share market we have to track the each move where the market is heading and where it can ends accordingly one should react. Whether to put the money in particular sector or script belongs to that sector or to sell the script if you have already. If someone wants to earn good money through the share market he should do some homework before buying security or selling it. He/she can do the fundamental and technical analysis of the security. This will help in reduce the risk. And in the same way the gaming also required some home work like before putting your money in to the game one should learn the game and what are the factors which can affect the chances of the winning for example poker game; in this game there are lots of variants are presents .Before playing one game type one should learn the game and make the strategy accordingly. In the stock market there are investors and traders are present .And in the poker there are poker pros and the new players are present who checks all the possibility and uses all the experience to win the game. In the stock market one should use their money according to the situation and in the same way in the poker game according to hole cards and the game situation player have to fold or make a next move.
Over all this is my individual thought.
Strategically placed Scar…
Its quite fascination to see a nicely done and strategically placed tattoo on someone’s…. We feel like having one for our self… how about a strategically placed Scar… sounds crazy right…. Well I have seen few people going crazy on scars too… few scars really look amazing and give a rough and tough kinda touch to ones personality…
When I was a kid… I hit my head on the edge of the steps while running down the staircase….
It was bad… my eye was swollen and had to get stitches too.. mom seems to be worried that her kid is gonna have a permanent scar on the face… I too dint like it in the earlier years… later I some how started liking my scar… in recent years I realized that the scar actually looked good on the face… it gave a different touch to personality…
This made me notice scars on other people’s faces too… and this idea fascinated me… most of the time scars on the face looks good and gave a unique touch then making it look horrible…
That is when the whole idea of strategically places scars fascinated me… and scars no more remaind as scars: the lasting sign of damage…
Year 2011
The end of 2010 is nearing and people are gearing up to celebrate the arrival of 2011. Even I am excited to welcome the arrival of New Year and bid adieu to the year passing by. This year has been a year of mixed feeling and achievements. And as I look back at the months gone by in this year, I feel happier than sad remembering the way things have shaped up for me. My preparations for New Year celebration will start with some good shopping of cloths and accessories to be worn on this New Year’s event. I and my friends are also in the process of short listing the venue of the party. Music, fun, dancing will be integral party of the event and we are all set to welcome the new year with arms wide open.
What girls looks for
I have always heard that “it’s very difficult to understand a women” and I agree with this because being a women I know why men say this. According to me reason is women's mind work in a very different way. They expect things to happen for them without expressing it especially from their boyfriend or husband. Let’s talk about what a girl wants in a boy. List is not small it will go on it’s a never ending list. But my list is bit small ;) Usually girls look for Honesty, good sense of humor, should be handsome with good muscles, should be mature and sensitive, should be confident, and should have good SMILE and many more. Girls easy get attracted to boys who have these qualities. But it is very difficult to find a guy like this because I am still searching for that guy.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Sweet home
Everyone loves their home even I am one of them. Yesterday I was thinking what is that thing which makes you feel “I LOVE MY HOME?” whole night I was thinking about this question it seems to be so difficult question but actually it’s very easy especially for those people who are working or studying away from their house and family. I remembered those days when I was in college I was staying in college hostel that time I left my house and parents for the first time. It was a difficult decision for me to take because I was so pampered by my parents that made me so depended on them but finally I took decision to go to college though i was not happy with my decision. When I went there I started missing my home because everything was not mine I was sharing my room with my roommates and other things in room which really made me upset actually I never had habit of sharing my stuff with other after few months I realized that you can’t expect everything to be happening as you want. Those three years really taught me many things.
Monday, November 8, 2010
I believe in GOD..
I have never saw GOD in my life but I still believe in it and believe is very strong but according to some people I am nut or stupid because how can you believe in something which don’t have any existence. By religion I am catholic. Without fail every Saturday and Sunday I go to church and sometimes I am sad that time also I visit church. It really gives me peace of mind. I feel so relax, I don’t know what’s the exact reason behind it is but I think there is some kind of power which makes me tension free my all worries just get washed away. I love you God.
You deserve only if you earned it….
Have you ever given it a serious thought… always we feel.. we should have got this or got that… did we ever think before sayin that, if we actually deserved it.. or did we really earn it…
How many time we demand for things without thinking about deserving it or earning it…
Does it not give a very different pleasure when you get something you really worked for and deserved… it’s a different feeling.. its like….a pride and achievement kinda thing…
In childhood most of the Childers must have heard their parents setting few targets, which if achieved, the child will be rewarded with something…. Why don’t we do this to ourself…
We should decide some deadlines.. or some limits or mark for our self and if achieved… we reward our self with something we like….
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Rock N Roll Part - 2
…Hey there readers .. glad to see u back
Elvis, Scotty, and Bill continued to record and to travel, they quit their day jobs in mid-October 1954.
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Beyond your salary…
Smash!!!…….. and the glass door Bangs against the wall. Freya was trying to open the door and she did it with a “bang” in the wrong direction!!!… the glass was almost about to break into pieces.
All heads in the room turned to see what happen… and suddenly u hear a shout…”EEHH…beyond your salary… be carefull” again the heads turn to the person who yelled this….
Sounds crazy.. rite… aren’t you wondering what the HELL this means…..
My reaction too was “@#@#$% horrible”
“Beyond your salary” sounds like a slang when you hear it for the first time… now everyone keeps taunting each other whenever someone is about to create some destruction to the office property…. Beyond your salary is reminding someone who is being careless about the office property….. you know the thoughts that come in our very very simple minds when irritated are “man I feel like punching this, throwing that!! Why not its not mine!” (believe me.. it happens) or “I’m having such a nice day.. blah blah blah.. oops!!” It is to curb this very pre-dominant thought and actions that has given this phrase its roots. It has gained momentum and for a few people it is a very rude way of sayin it… but this is how it is…. It’s a fact most of the times… moreover its not always about the loss, its about the loss that can be avoided by just being a little responsible and careful. It’s observed most of the times; people are not very careful or rather not at all careful with things that do not belong to them or for what they have not paid the price (of course we do not fall In this category) ….. This is of course not at all ethical nor morally right.
Beyond your salary….. the most happening office lingo.
Flowers
Flower is also called as Blossom or bloom. All of us like to look at those pretty flowers blooming all around, especially during winter and spring.
• Giving a Gift of flowers is the perfect way to honor friends, family, and colleagues for birthdays, holidays, weddings, or any occasion.
• Knowing more about flowers, and then going out and having a look at them, will be more like communing with nature.
• Some peoples have the fond of photographing flowers.
• Flowers are the finest gift to the mankind. We have seen the flowers of many kinds and to many colors. When I went to India I see the flowers like lily, lotus, rose, marigold, jasmine and champak.
• Flowers are very useful too. They beautiful our garden, our courtyard and the front and back of our houses. They beautify the sides of our houses.
• Flowers give much pleasure and peace to our mind.
We can communicate through flowers because they are the best way to communicate your sentiment to a person who is closed to you and that person is away from you.
Monday, November 1, 2010
A good manager???
What is manager?
Manager is a person responsible for planning, controlling & directing people & resources to achieve organizations goal & take corrective action as & when required. Manager should possess following skill to become a good manager.
The first and most important skill required understands the people.
Manager should possess well defined goals.
Manager should be self motivated & also have to motivate others.
Manager should capable to allocate different resources & should have to utilize those resources properly.
Manager should be adoptable in any situation & he should be friendly & easily approachable.
Manager should organize, plan, control, his activity in right direction & in proper manner.
Manager should have strong decision making skill & problem solving ability.
Manager should appraise people & encourage them when required.
Manager should possess good technical as well as conceptual knowledge. Manager should be leader & he should have creativity.