Experiment with Lies III

Ok, so then I take it that you have gotten over your habit of Justification. Now the time comes of really getting the “lie” part going.

One thing of vital remembrance is that words have meanings. It is not that people (yes even you) forget it, its just that they don’t know how to use it. For eg. Its always better to say correct instead of right in a discussions as the word “correct” implies that what the speaker is saying follows the standard norms while the word “right” is used to give conformation about a particular aspect. Hence if you really want to change the dynamic of the discussion try using the word “correct”. Also when you say or hear the word “correct” notice how the speaker suddenly is looked at as an authority or gains an edge and command over the rest. Invariably the rest will look to him/her for approval, and that is exactly what you must want in a discussion. (course this is not for general friendly “what should be the Govt’s next step…” discussion).

The reason this is of importance is the mind frame that you get. Always have it that you will speak what is meant and never use the phrase “what I meant to say…” A lie has to be said in to the point and with the least words, as the more words the more tension the more chances that you will lose the grip on yourself. Plus the surroundings are not for a story. A simple yes/no decorum is to be followed for you do not want to be remembered and what you said to linger in the minds of those that question.

Your lie is always going to be a reaction to the question. Make sure that you speak in that manner. The error in most of the “thought out” lies is that it feels, seems, sounds like even tastes like it was thought of. That the answer was ready. The great liar will not use this method. He will in fact sound as if he cant believe that he’s being questioned. Reaction.

The “idea of a plan” will give you exactly that kind of mind-set. Since you have NOT thought of an escape route you will and must want to fall in the whole. For only then can you be allowed to behave, act, react in an innocent person manner.

You will ask.. .WHY?

Because it is only the innocent that fall into a trap that the guilty have already and hence try to avoid. The persons who are not in the picture are only lost. Hence we must want to be in the trap, for then we have substance and when we have substance, we shall find a way.

Next post… breaking down the real “lie”.